A response to rudeness

For the first time I have received a ridiculously improper and rude comment on my blog. I would ask that if you cannot say anything nice, please don't say anything at all. You do not have to read our family blog if you don't want to. I do not say anything mean to anyone here or on other people's blogs. If I don't like a blog or the way someone parents, I simply stop going to their blog. If you don't want to see my home or they way we live, stop visiting. I think people come by because they like to see what we are up to. I think (from the e-mails I receive) that maybe this helps some waiting families.

I am so hurt and so upset right now (which was probably the commenter's goal) that I am physically shaking. I know the comment came from her own place of unhappiness but it doesn't do anyone any good to simply be mean. Also, I have site meter so I have figured out who you are. I am praying for your unhappy heart (thanks to a special little girl for that advice).

And to respond to one of your three hurtful comments, Kate is bonding absolutely fine now. We have had a MAJOR turn-around. She does not reach for strangers anymore and in fact, she is rather clingy until she warms up to people. So, I thought it would be okay to let my sister and her husband hold her. She waited until she was comfortable with them and then she went to them. I happen to be a specialist in the field of family psychology and communication and I have consulted with an attachment clinic. Unless you have more experience than that, please keep your hurtful observations to yourself!

I am sorry but if this continues, I will take the blog private. I do this as a scrapbook to my family (who mean the world to me). My family has been and always will be my first priority. I will not risk people judging us or making rude remarks about the people I love.