3 Peanuts: Hair

{Iphone photo}

As a marriage and parenting coach, I am always telling my clients how important it is to "date your mate." With the busy schedules of a teen, a tween and a kindergartner it is a challenge for me to follow my own advice sometimes.

Anyway, last week was a blue one for me. I am feeling so very lost. I have perspective and realize my problems are small but nonetheless, they felt very overwhelming last week. Dave saw me crying one day and realized we needed a date night ASAP! So when Dave asked me where I wanted to go for dinner, I said..."I don't want to just go to dinner. I want to go do something fun! I want to laugh." He said, "like what?" I immediately said, "Rollerskating!"

Well, Dave had never roller-skated or rollerbladed in his whole life. He had never been on wheels. Ever. But my sweet husband tracked down a roller rink about 40 minutes from our house and we went roller skating!!! We I had so much fun! I was very shaky at first. But all those Friday nights at the Rollerama in Bucks County, PA came rushing back to me. Seriously, I spent a lot of time roller skating in my tween years.

Dave and I really did have a great time. It was just what we needed. He did great too. He did not fall once. I have a few seconds of video from my phone but I don't think he wants me to post it even though he looks awesome! In fact, I am going to try to come up with some more "fun" dates for us. Let me know in the comments any fun date ideas you have.

On Sunday we went to the BEST Superbowl party!!! Our friends have recently built the MOST amazing Mies van der Rohe style house. It is huge. It is stunningly gorgeous. They had the most food I have ever seen anywhere from sliders and wings to steak and shrimp. There was a fabulous frozen margarita machine and just about anything else you might have wanted. The kids had a blast too.

{Kate just before we left for the party (outfit Zulily).
I just got instagram but have NO clue how to use it!}

I curled my hair for the party ( who knew it would match Madonna's?)...

Great tutorial for curling hair here. This is a darling blog too.

(an I phone snap at the party. My I-phone stinks. It is old.)

I was outside by the fire and the outdoor kitchen watching with my friends on the big scren. My kids were in that room beyond the glass. A HUGE media room with a movie screen, a flat screen, a pool table, a shuffleboard table, and a fireplace. It was perfect!

I know a lot of people did not like Madonna's half time show but I did. I was taken back to the 80's driving around in my shiny red pinto listening to her! I LOVED Madonna's music when I was in high school and college. And I can tell you this. There were about 100 people at this party and the only time everyone was staring at the multiple screens was when Madonna was on. People were mesmerized.

Okay so back to my hair. It is getting so long and it looks awful down. So, I have been trying new things. Here is the messy sock bun. Yup there is a sock in there. Tutorial here and here.

(This one was the first one I did but I have gotten much better at it)

I am getting my hair hi-lighted on Thursday and I might cut it shorter too. What do you think? I wear it up or curled everyday.

We are hosting an early Valentine's dinner party Saturday night for four couple friends at our house. I am really excited. We have not had a formal dinner party in a long time. I am in the process of menu planning. Any suggestions?

I might make this centerpiece. I am not sure I love it. It might be too cutesy for me. What do you think?

And I cannot remember where I got this image below but doesn't this look like a yummy comfort dessert? If anyone knows the source or recipe, let me know, please:)